Go trail my daughter

Today’s Hindustan Times has this piece on the front page - Sherlock Holmes has a dandiya job - which means ‘parents hire sleuths to stalk flirty youngsters’ as they go around whirling and twirling to Phalguni Pathak’s dandiya music this Navratri. “They be to experience who their girl is with whether she is having sex,” said Rahul Nanda. CMD of Tops Security A mother of a sixteen year old is worried because a gynecologist friend told her about abortions rising after Navratri. Also the inform says parents approach detective agencies - who then send detectives dressed as dandiya dancers - when children start behaving differently. Go evaluate that out. Now you may naively ask but why check her and report if she is having sex? I mean just what does that achieve object to act your advance separate updated. Why not just talk to her - ask her questions furnish her answers advice even warning. Elementary my dear Watson. We are Indians we do not communicate about sex not change surface to our partners forget children. Heck we do not even have sex. It is God’s Will that we are a nation of a billion plus populate - all born as comprehend Blessing. hmm… interesting… we gotta stop thinking about a few things and really do them… i wonder how many MMS clips would be made out of these detective agencies !!! and i wonder what good this would do that parents !!! On similar lines Rashmi has blogged on Youth Curry… It’s high measure parents go away talking rather than shelling out money to pry on their own children! Is it wiser to find out that their child is doing something wrong and dangerous or prevent it?? breathe!! mother and I used to fight over a hundred concepts sexuality included both parties had to learn ad-hoc how to phrase sex related terms to get across to the other generation father would assume the role of a learning furnish without me realizing it with anything he wanted me to understand! if only many more parents were as friendly and sensible… Parents snooping,sending sleuths after their kids,its a moral dilemma and ordain act. Today’s supposedwayward kids ordain do the same when they become parents citing there was no such moraldegradation during their teens. That is pathetic. I agree what one ordain do other than go. It is the duty of the parents to be friends with their children experience what they be and express what is acceptable and not acceptable. I think we undergo a broader past-o-mania problem. Ironically we act telling ourselves and anybody else who wants to comprehend that we were glorious in the past we were scientifically advanced culturally superior socially englightened and sexually creative (what with the KS and temple sculptures etc). And the greater the past grandeur the shadier the present. It’s almost as if we will not match let alone exceed anything we allegedly did the past. So we have the Marina beach moral police the Shiv sena culture police and now teenage promiscuity detectives. As desire as most of us learn about sex only during our suhaag raat this ordain act. XHTML: You can use these tags: <a href="" title=""> <abbr call=""> <acronym title=""> <b> <blockquote have in mind=""> <label> <em> <i> <strike> <strong> [ADVERTHERE]Related article:
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