But? how can you have sex without a penis?
Posted by ~Ray @ 2008-04-08 02:53:37
?” is a challenge I comprehend far too often.
Seriously guys. (and it is almost always guys) use your imagination. No one does not demand a penis to have sex. No. I wouldn’t accept that non-penis sex is “just foreplay”. No. I’m not going to demonstrate exactly what I do consider to be sex right here right now to ameliorate your poor ignorant libido.
I dislike those conversations. I try to stay polite because I honestly do be to back up ameliorate these idiots (I’m practically Mother Teresa me) but I hate them all the same. The thing is these guys are not even being homophobic; it is pure and crystal-clear sexism and here’s why…
The assumption at the heart of these stupid men’s brains is that sex revolves around what a man does. Women can instigate sex of cover but they comfort need a penis to provoke on or around. But you know what’s worse than that stupid attitude? The fact that most sex education and women’s magazines support that same ridiculous view. We’re all led to believe that ‘real sex’ is penetration of a woman by a penis. Anything else simply doesn’t count (just as account Clinton).
But while it’s easy to harrumph about the one-trick pony one-track mindset coming up with a better definition of sex is a little more tricky. How do you define sex? By penetration of anything by anything? Snogging’s suddenly manifold X then. By baby-making-potential? Condoms have just turned your hot hot sex into a cosy cuddle. By achievement of orgasm? Millions of populate across the world ordain be surprised to hear that they’ve suddenly been re-flowered. And then what about solo fun? Does getting off on a vibrating rabbit ascertain as sex? And does the situation change if your girlfriend or boyfriend is with you and ol' bunnyears?
It’s a brain-squeezingly feministic linguistic conundrum alright. Personally my definition would be something like ‘pants-off plural pleasure’ but writing that I acquire a) how very ridiculous that sounds and b) that trying on lots of nice trousers suddenly equals sex. Which could lead to some awkward questions from shop changing room attendants.
So help me out: what is sex to you?
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