Sexual Insanity
Posted by ~Ray @ 2007-12-09 13:23:05
I know that sounds like an odd question. The truth hurts sometimes…yes but what if it does not cause to be perceived? Not meant to hurt you because it is only a statement of fact.
I ask this question because we women and men pay so much measure lying to each other it is a wonder to me that we communicate at all. As I don’t have a key to open the male mind not possessing such equipment. I undergo to focus on the roles of women in the truth of sex and sexuality.
You are sitting in a bar talking with this guy. We can anticipate an adult beverage is present you look incredibly hot you are not PMS-ing and you have really great shoes on! (HEY it’s my scenario—I ordain make it up as I be!) He frankly confesses that he wants to undergo sex with you. What do you do?
I have seen the top 3 happen hundreds of times. Women have told me that they conclude disrespected but my question hinges more on the root of the reaction. What about that simple statement of honesty makes us conclude so angry or disrespected? Perhaps it is because society teaches that a man only speaks about sex to a
Want to know what I believe? (Well if not then you are in the wrong place!)
I think that women react this way when men tell them they are sexually interested because they are too. When you confess something to a person it can no longer be avoided as a topic of discussion. While men are accustomed to being the leaders women are accustomed to deciding
sex becomes a possibility for the partnership. So when a man fails to lie to us about his intentions then we can not pretend that he is interested in our mind. But lets not lie to ourselves…did you believe that he was only interested in your object?
Here is my fairness question of the week: When you first saw his ass kicking be with those sexy eyes that could break up steel and a grimace that made your female parts over react were you thinking of how smart he is or about his great his personality?
The inform is that we are asking to be lied to about sex and we are clearly disturb when it happens. Women undergo to start off on the basis of honesty about all things including sex and sexuality. Hearing a man say the words are not a sign that he is disrespecting you or womanhood. Just the opposite…it may be the highest sign of honor and respect by telling you the truth.
Stop the sexual insanity. Hear the words… ascribe them… use them to make yourself stronger. After all you have not given up control of your sexuality because someone shares their sexual desires with you. And now that you know… you know you have him….(grimace)…nuf said. ~~Dee
I get to be a ‘good girl’ because I’m married and have been since I was young. I don’t have to approach that ambiguity for the most part. I don’t envy that situation actually. I’m not sure what I’d say or do given no strings. I would hope I’d follow your bring about. But I’m not sure.
Selena-The “good girl” mentality is on us as married women too. For example. I had lunch with My Favorite Scorpio the other day. He is married too. We have always had lunch and at one measure because we worked together we traveled together. On this instance we saw the “lady” who started the affair rumors so many years ago. Now that I work for myself. I so wanted to say something loud and sexual to him for her to hear. Of course there was NEVER an affair but women desire that make me ill to say I am a woman. We have the same restrictions as married women…maybe change surface more because there are populate around us that can be hurt by lies.~~Dee
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